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1. cynthia

   Posted October 27, 2010 at 8:55 am | Permalink

   Hi friend,
   Before anything else, try talking with your parents. Maybe they can get you transferred. But for the time being you just have to live through it. You might be made fun of, but I believe they are just in the minority brackets. There are enough good people out there. My advise is to simply concentrate on your studies and be the best student you can be. Let's face it, you're the only white there and you look like the "odd person" out. But in time, things will normalize. Of course, I am not saying the tauntings will stop. Every schools or organizations will always have bullies. You just need a few good friends and if you stay out of trouble and be a good student, you'll find them…or who knows, they will find you.

2. billjriv

   Posted November 13, 2010 at 1:34 am | Permalink

   unfortunatley, white people (i am white by the way) are just as bad when it comes to rascism. im sorry your going through that, the only thing you can really do is tell your parents, life is tough, but if you make it through this, youll be glad you did,

3. Momma Aimee

   Posted November 13, 2010 at 7:35 pm | Permalink

   do NOT toss Raggy Ann — shame on yu for tossing Andy. They may not care TODAY — but they vill care ….they are going to care, adn then they are going to be upset if yu got rid of her intentionally. Put her up on a shelf, pack her up. My R Ann and R Andy (from when i vas 3) on a shelf in the boys room.there is clutter then there is family history. Some day your 2 beatful little grils are going to be moms and what a gift, what a heirloom, for them to have a doll that was YOURS — I have only a couple of my mom’s books and i love them. I have saved my R Ann and Andy and my china dolls (2) and all the books of mine that i can for the boys and for their children.your house looks GREAT and I am so happy you feel good about it — but do not go over baird, family histroy deserves space.

4. 2002redsdime

   Posted November 18, 2010 at 10:10 pm | Permalink

   You can ask this advice at Jamrie.com
   People over there might be able to help you out.

   That's where I go.

5. vbasic

   Posted October 9, 2011 at 12:22 am | Permalink

   I moved to a predominately hispanic community from a largely white suburb. It was a huge culture shock for me, but over a month or so, things settled down. At first I was picked on, but then I showed that I wasn't going to deal with it and stood up for myself. Pretty soon people started to respect that, and a group of friends started to form. I developed new hobbies and really changed, but mostly for the better.

   Just be wary of who you hang out with, choose your friends carefully, and remember that moving to a new town is a hugely political experience. You're going to learn a lot about developing your communication skills here. Don't let this get to you, just make every action count towards your future. Socialization is important, but school is the reason you're there. Remember that.

   The best way to deal with being picked on is to calmly answer them with something funny of your own. Don't be aggressive, just smile and say it. Get them to laugh. At first it's tough, you'll be nervous. Soon however, it becomes second nature and you'll find it easier to blend into new social environments in life.

   Good luck!

6. vbasic

   Posted October 25, 2011 at 7:40 am | Permalink

   I feel so bad for you. Can you talk to your parents at all? maybe they can help. Or seek out other students that seem to not fit in, perhaps you can form some friendships there. whatever you do, be true to yourself, and don't change for the sake of "fitting in".

7. darth_sinner1

   Posted November 29, 2011 at 1:50 pm | Permalink

   Just pray to God and tell him what your going through and ask for strength and he will give it to you,read a Christian bible to take your mind off of it,if you take the high road and are patient in time things will work out,if it get physical go to the principal your parents or police.A good bible teacher that has a daily 1 hour bible study is Shepherdschapel.com Pastor Murray has been teaching for 50 years and is truly blessed to teach.God Bless

8. 2002redsdime

   Posted November 30, 2011 at 6:50 pm | Permalink

   I feel so bad for you. Can you talk to your parents at all? maybe they can help. Or seek out other students that seem to not fit in, perhaps you can form some friendships there. whatever you do, be true to yourself, and don't change for the sake of "fitting in".

9. darth_sinner1

   Posted December 29, 2011 at 1:50 am | Permalink

   Is there any other schools close by? My son is a Jr. High Principle, I wish he was the one at your school, he would not put up with that crap. Why are you in a all black school?

10. vbasic

    Posted December 29, 2011 at 12:30 pm | Permalink

    You can ask this advice at Jamrie.com
    People over there might be able to help you out.

    That's where I go.